The Little Spaces In Between

Is it true that you have certain gaps in your life and then when someone comes and fills them up you feel as if you’ve achieved everything?

Even if that is, is it wrong? Should you keep waiting for more people or should you explore you possibilities with that one and see how far it can take you and help you exploit your potential too?

Because too much, is just too much. And we here, believe only in the best. And once we happen to find that, there’s no two ways about it. It’s one luminal spiral.

x EdgyShark x


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Posted on June 15, 2010, in Existence and tagged , , . Bookmark the permalink. 5 Comments.

  1. Yeah, gaps are an integral part of ones journey and they are of many kinds too. And the gap about which you talk, is definitely one of the most abundant and known gaps.

    For one thing, you need to treasure the people you have got.
    And i think it is just a mirage to run after someone who will be best for you because before you know if someone fits the bill or not , you need to try almost all the possibilities. And this is quite absurd ( cause the world is not a showroom where you have come to pick a pair of shoes). But then I believe that our God-given instincts must help us to choose the one who will fill a gap and give us true joy which is so scarce today. And yes, help us to jet out our potentials too. ( I think this is the biggest gap of all- to do justice to our potentials).
    Thus on a practical note we should go for the best possible and not always for the best.

    And though maybe you are able to fill a void, another one will come up , maybe a different one – that is what life is all about ; isn’t it ?

    ” There’s always gonna be another mountain
    I’m always gonna wanna make it move
    Always gonna be an uphill battle
    Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose

    Ain’t about how fast I get there
    Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
    It’s the climb”
    – Alexander & Mabe
    (please forgive the length!! 🙂 )

    • But don’t you think that we should explore our possibilities with one person and then see if he has nothing else to offer then it’s obviously time to move on? Only when you find that you are with someone who is helping you explore new things everyday without a coming of an exhaustion bill it’s the place to stay. Someone who fills the gaps and makes sure that you are strong and brave enough to fill the bottlenecks that will come up. Someone who helps you exploit your potential and shows you at least the light of the way.

  2. Of course , i think the same.
    But how do you figure out that no new possibilities are being unearthed ? And you don’t always be this selfish to say to that person that if i am not getting any boost in my endeavours then you are out !!( cause that makes the relation a symbiosis or maybe parasitic) Because when this is so then its clear that there is no love between the two concerned and then…
    And who said you are incomplete so as to need someone to tackle possibilities. You yourself have the power to realise your destiny. ( no, i am not vivekananda!!)
    And the cornerstone of emotions between two people must be something more fundamental like love. Of course the objective must be mutual healing and help.
    But of course this topic needs more thought and wisdom than the extempore of ideas that I am (maybe we are it should be) typing and maybe this is a major thing that ails our society.

  3. I’d probably try to explore as much as I can with one person, if there’s a person in mind.
    Your blog seems pretty awesome, btw. (:

  4. I don’t know is it related, but I think it more like space and not gap which is there between us. It is a space between two people or an object and a person. Then there are some laws which are bind between them some Science in that space that creates that experience or feeling when you are around that person or object.

    Like when you hug your mother you feel the most secure, you feel like you wont ever be harmed, it is all because that space between you and your mother is only ruled by positive vibes and feelings and your sub-conscious knows for sure that there is nothing to worry about.

    Well, it is a bit hard to explain but ask me a few things let me see whether I can explain it in much detail.

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